Confidence is not something you are born with. It is something you build through action, practice and positive self awareness. Many young people believe they have nothing to offer because they compare themselves to others or focus on their weaknesses instead of their strengths.

The first step in building confidence is understanding your value. Every young person has strengths, talents and experiences that make them unique. You may not realise your value because you have not learned how to express it yet. Confidence begins with recognising your abilities, even if they seem small.

The second step is taking action. Confidence grows when you do things that scare you. Every time you take a step outside your comfort zone, your confidence expands. When you avoid challenges, your confidence shrinks. Action is more powerful than motivation because action creates results.

Another important step is developing skills. When you learn new skills, your self esteem increases. Whether you learn digital skills, communication skills or practical skills, improvement boosts confidence. Learning shows you that growth is possible and that you have the ability to improve.

Confidence also requires positive self talk. Many young people speak negatively to themselves without realising it. They say things like “I am not good enough” or “I will fail.” These thoughts become barriers. Confidence grows when you replace negative thoughts with supportive ones.

Surrounding yourself with positive people also strengthens confidence. Supportive environments help you feel capable and encouraged. Negative environments weaken your belief in yourself.

Confidence is not arrogance. It is the quiet belief that you can try, learn and grow. Even if you make mistakes, you can always start again. Confidence is built through experience, not perfection.